The art of the engagement ring

A history of symbols

The tradition of the engagement ring dates back to ancient Rome, where an iron ring — the anulus pronubus — was given as a sign of mutual commitment. Romans wore this ring on the left ring finger, believing that a vein, the "vena amoris," directly connected this finger to the heart. While anatomy has since demonstrated this vein doesn't exist, the tradition has endured through the centuries.

The first documented diamond engagement ring in history dates to 1477, when Archduke Maximilian of Austria presented Mary of Burgundy with a ring adorned with diamonds cut in the shape of an "M." This princely gesture inaugurated a tradition that would, centuries later, become universal thanks to De Beers' visionary marketing campaigns in the 1940s.

The solitaire: the timeless choice

The solitaire remains the most popular choice for an engagement ring, and for good reason. A single diamond mounted on a simple band showcases the stone in all its splendor, without visual competition. The four or six-prong setting, created by Tiffany & Co. in 1886, remains the absolute reference: it elevates the stone above the band to maximize light entry.

Contemporary variations include the bezel setting, which wraps the diamond in a protective metal circle offering a more modern, streamlined look. The "tension setting," which holds the stone through metal pressure, creates an illusion of a diamond suspended in mid-air — a bold choice for avant-garde spirits.

An engagement ring is not simply a piece of jewelry. It is a crystallized promise, a moment of eternity worn on the hand every day of one's life.

Beyond diamonds: colored stones

More and more couples are breaking with the white diamond tradition to opt for colored stones loaded with meaning and character. The blue sapphire, emblem of fidelity and wisdom, was consecrated by Lady Diana and adopted by Kate Middleton. The emerald, symbol of renewal and hope, appeals to romantic souls. The ruby, stone of passion and courage, suits ardent temperaments.

Semi-precious stones are also gaining popularity: pink morganite, green tourmaline, rhodolite garnet and color-changing alexandrite offer original alternatives at more accessible prices. The key is choosing a stone whose hardness is sufficient for daily wear — a minimum of 7 on the Mohs scale is generally recommended.

The meaning of stones

Each precious stone carries centuries-old symbolism. The diamond represents invincibility and eternity. The sapphire embodies fidelity and sincerity. The emerald symbolizes fertility and renewal. The ruby evokes passion and protection. Choosing a stone based on its meaning adds a poetic dimension to the proposal.

Our buying advice

Discreetly research your partner's tastes: does he or she tend to prefer classic or modern jewelry? Does he or she prefer yellow gold, white gold or platinum? A close friend or family member can be a valuable source of information without spoiling the surprise.

Consult a trusted jeweler who will take the time to guide you without sales pressure. Systematically request a gemological certificate (GIA, HRD or IGI) for any diamond over 0.30 carats. This document guarantees the exact characteristics of the stone and serves as your insurance for resale or insurance purposes.

Finally, don't forget that the ring size must be perfect. If you don't know your partner's exact size, discreetly borrow one of their rings or ask a jeweler who will show you techniques for determining the ideal size.

The budget for an engagement ring is personal and intimate. Forget the "two months' salary" rule — choose a stone that moves you and that you can offer with joy and serenity.